Love your solitude

"Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love.” ~Rainer Maria Rilke

"Love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away...

and this shows that the space around you is 
beginning to grow vast...

be happy about your growth, in which of course you can't

take anyone with you and be gentle with those who stay behind:

be confident and calm in front of them and don't torment them with your doubts and don't frighten them with your faith and joy, which they wouldn't be able to comprehend. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn't necessarily have to alter

when you yourself change over and over again: when you see them,

love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust... 
and don't expect any understanding: but believe in a love that is being store up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it. " 
Rainer Maria Rilke

From Letters to a Young Poet